I truly fully believe that the Lord is the one and only matchmaker. I have been with my DH since I was 19. At the age of 19, I didn’t know who I was; I am still learning who I am. But as I mature and figure who I am, I only fall more in love with my husband which completely amazes me. How did God know that I was going to need a man like my husband before I knew? But even with God’s love our marriage still needs TLC. As we are always changing and growing people, our marriage changes and sometimes we need to find that passion again. Once Monkey was born our relationship was put on auto polite, we had to learn how to be parents then learn how to juggle everything a child. Now that we have mastered that, it’s time to turn off the auto polite and find that chemistry that started this relationship almost 10 years ago. It’s not easy, our likes and taste has changed, in fact it’s probably harder to light that spark again for the second time. The first time, well we both were in great shape lol and we didn’t have many responsibilities (stress free) plus we had money to burn lol. I’m thinking this is normal and healthy in a relationship and I am sure we will need to find that spark again in another decade.
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We go through the same thing. Having children certainly changes the relationship... every time. So we have been through a lot of changes. I hope you find that spark again soon ;)
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